"What's wrong with me, and how do I fix it?"
I've been asking that question for a long time. I've studied psychology, read a whole lot, gone to dozens of therapists, even become a therapist, trying to answer that question. I've acquired many different answers from many different sources.
The most useful answer I have comes from Josh, my ex-boyfriend.
"What's wrong with you is that you are looking for answers to the wrong questions. You can fix that problem by asking different questions."